By Saba Chaudhry.
Lack of self-confidence apparently is one of the great problems besetting people today. When you spend too much time battling your own nature, the opposite happens: you deplete yourself, for example i can’t pass these exams because i am not good in study, i am a lifetime failure, lame yourself for things that aren’t your fault, i am not good in anything, expecting things to go wrong for you, this life is bad, I hate everyone, nobody understand me etc,.
My question is Do you understand yourself?
It takes a positive attitude to achieve positive results, and self knowledge and self confidence is beginning of self improvement. Poor self confidence may prevent you from being motivated. If you don’t encourage yourself to accept opportunity and challenge who will? Instead of worrying about things you can’t do and you don’t have shift your energy on things you can do and you have right now. Practice saying something positive concerning everything about which you have been talking negatively. Don’t say, “I’ll never be able to do that.” Instead, affirm“With God’s help I will do that.
Have you ever asked yourself why do you exist? What is your purpose of life?
Every morning when you get up, Do you ask yourself what is ultimate goal to be better than yesterday. Do you know despite no matter how many times you have failed in life you still possess talent. Have you find that purpose that talent? How can you further develop those talents and abilities? Well you know the answer of those questions more than me. Self motivation is a heart of creativity, responsibility,
For developing a positive attitude one should have courage, wisdom and maturity of thoughts. One should keep in mind this life isn’t permanent place to live, you aren’t here forever, like this life your problems are also temporary. Difficulties are a normal part of life. What I want to say is forget about everything think positive, make a change first in your life and then in the world and in the end tell your story honestly, you are the writer of your own life.
If you are writer of your own life you are also creator of your own happiness. Who decide whether you shall be happy or unhappy not people but you do. Happiness is merely determined by our thoughts. Learn to create your own happiness. First thing every morning before you arise say out loud, “I believe. I trust my journey, life is beautiful and full of opportunities, and i am here for a special purpose. Since the day one, you had everything within yourself, it is the world that convinced you didn’t. Be so busy in improving yourself that you have not time to criticize others. Everyone shines, given the right lighting. For some, it’s a Broadway spotlight for others, a lamplit desk. Give yourself the right light and then spread that light everywhere.
This is my reason to be happy today. What’s yours.