Bullying

By Azfar Farooqi.

John F Kennedy asserted “The rights of every man are diminished when the rights of one man are threatened”. Violence is often associated with physical abuse while the more prevalent emotional abuse is neglected. Such emotional experiences may not be viewed as bullying by everyone, however they can lead to depression and low self esteem. Thinking of themselves as young and careless, bullies are quick to get over their exploits, however the effects on the victim are much more long lasting.

Various incidents of bullying in Pakistan have been documented over the years. From cyber bullying to work place and school bullying, the phenomenon has been exceedingly prevalent in our society. According to a study carried out amongst 25 countries, Pakistan takes 22nd place for the highest rate of cyberbullying. With accelerated technological advancements in the country, Pakistan has been highlighted as one of the countries where cybercrime is increasing. Moreover, research conducted by Microsoft on a segment of 8-17 years old in Pakistan, illustrates 26% individuals are bullied online, whereas 53% are bullied offline. Absence of the existence of formal school and college regulations and awareness suggests online bullying is not seen as a demanding issue. The study also reveals women and girls in Pakistan experience much bullying as compared to men. The male-dominated culture in Pakistan can arguably be one of the core reasons why women are victimized. The accelerated use of social media has made this problem worse. In 2016, more evidence and material was generated regarding the bullying of females in Pakistan. The National Response Center for Cyber Crimes (NR3C) does not currently have any legislature for cyber crimes such as hacking and online stalking in place.

A Pakistani blogger, Nabiha Meher asserts cyber bullying threatens entire households in Pakistan not just the victims in this case girls. Pakistani women are constantly harassed online and are even sent rape threats. The Pakistani culture teaches that a family’s honor is connected to a woman. Therefore, women avoid speaking out about such incidents in fear of being accused and bringing shame to their families. Moreover, women often turn towards hurting themselves or even committing suicide in worse settings. One such incident was highlighted by Dawn News when a girl committed suicide because her landlord was bullying and harassing her over social media and in real life too.

Another study shows bullying at school leads to insomnia, severe depression and a failure to perform well at academics among students. In comparison to students who neither felt isolated nor had suffered any mistreatment, students who felt secluded and couldn’t sleep held a greater likelihood of being victimized in the past 30 days. Many noted incidents in Pakistani schools not only included bullying from fellow students but also from school teachers and principals. Brandsynario cites one such incident of Karachi Public School(KPS), where a pupil was called out by her teacher because she forgot to take her nail polish off. The teacher went on to accuse her of trying to impress the boys and kicked her out of class.

An occurrence from 2005 narrated in Dawn that a contractor was alleged of bullying bus owners in Hyderabad. The contractor was charging bus owners 8 times the registered parking fee. When one of the drivers spoke up against this oppression the contractor harassed him and shattered his windows. This illustrates that bullying is not just restricted to schools, children and females.

Bullying needs to be stopped at its roots. Why do bullies bully? Because they have been tormented by someone in their earlier lives. Both the bully and the victim are victims at times. Therefore, awareness needs to be spread regarding social and cultural issues and family values should encourage respect and dignity of all members of the society.

About Author: 

Azfar Farooqi is studying MBA from Business Administration at Institute Of Business Management, Karachi.

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